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“You Have Very Poor Control.”

July 19, 2018 by Frank 7 Comments

“You have very poor control.”

No mention of how I was feeling after my first couple of weeks living with a demanding chronic illness that would affect me for the rest of my life.

No mention of how my family, friends, peers, work and uni were treating me in the aftermath of my diagnosis.

No mention of how I was handling the insulin injections, finger pricks, food, physical activity, hypos, hypers and stigma of living with diabetes.

After a quick flick through my diabetes logbook charting some less than ideal blood glucose levels, I walked out of my very first endocrinologist appointment eight years ago on the verge of tears. This endo had clearly spent more time with his head buried inside a textbook than he had in the real world, and I was left feeling very little empathy for what I had been going through.

Despite several weeks of learning about diabetes under the wing of a very supportive diabetes educator, it took just one ten minute consult with that endo to undo what I believed was some solid progress in managing my diabetes.

That is exactly the reason why the language we use when talking about diabetes is so damn important to me.

I’m insulted when people think that this issue is about nothing more than political correctness over the phrase ‘diabetic’ or ‘person with diabetes.’ I honestly couldn’t care less which of these words you prefer to use. What I do care about is how your choice of words, sentences, body language and attitudes could impact others.

My diabetes educator could read my face the minute I stepped out into the hallway, and knew that something wasn’t quite right.

I tried to laugh it off. I told her that I hadn’t taken too much of what that endo had said to heart.

But man, those words hurt. They still hurt today.

Being mindful of language is about more than just being polite or trying not to offend someone with your choice of words.

The language we use when talking about diabetes has the power to create reality.

You can also check out my five reasons to be mindful of language when talking about diabetes in my latest column for Diabetes Daily.

And commit Diabetes Australia’s Position Statement on Language to memory!

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Posted in: Diabetes and Emotions, Diabetes and Healthcare Professionals Tagged: Attitudes, HCPs, Healthcare Professionals, Language, Language and Diabetes, Language Matters, Words

Diabetic is a Label. Diabetes Describes Me.

April 22, 2016 by Frank 4 Comments

“Make sure you take your travel letter that says you’re a diabetic,” Mum reminded me yesterday afternoon.

Mum has used the word “diabetic” a few times lately in reference to my insulin pump day and an upcoming trip, and it’s kind of been bugging me. Until yesterday, when I finally felt the urge to correct her.

“I’m not a diabetic,” I replied. “I’m a person with diabetes.”

“What’s the difference?” Mum asked.

“Diabetic is a label.” I paused, trying to summon more words.

“Come on, explain yourself.”

I was in the process of swallowing a mouthful of coffee. Feeling the pressure to answer, I choked. I jumped out of my chair and raced over to the lawn, where I could safely clear my throat and the excess coffee in my mouth.

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“I don’t use the word ‘diabetic’ on my blog. I say person with diabetes. Diabetic is a label, whereas diabetes is a word that describes me. I wouldn’t call you ‘cancer’ or ‘brain tumour,’ would I?”

“That’s true,” Mum said, with an expression of surprise that told me she’d learned something new.

I’ve seen others in the DOC talk about this so well. I’ve wanted to talk about it, but haven’t quite been able to find the right words up until now.

Language matters. To quote Diabetes Australia’s Language Position Statement:

“The way language is used – both verbal and written – reflects and shapes our thoughts, beliefs and behaviours. Language has the power to persuade, change or reinforce beliefs, discourse and stereotypes – for better or for worse. Words do more than reflect people’s reality: they create reality.”

“Language needs to engage people with diabetes and support their daily self-care efforts. Importantly, language that de-motivates or induces fear, guilt or distress needs to be avoided and countered.”

“Optimal communication increases the motivation, health and well-being of people with diabetes; furthermore, that careless or negative language can be de-motivating, is often inaccurate, and can be harmful.”

What may seem silly to you, means a great deal to the person who is listening or reading.

Language Matters.

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